The Right Words

Words are such elusive and tricky things. It seems like the time you need them the most is also the time when they are the most difficult to find. Maybe I'm just speaking for myself in that regard. No doubt, we all have found ourselves in situations from time to time when we are flustered and/or tongue-tied. Yet there do seem to be those who get less stymied than others. What is their secret? How do they do it? I wish I knew exactly because many of the people I tend to admire the most are those who seem to have a great talent for pulling the right word out of the air that captures the moment, makes it meaningful, pinpoints feelings that ache to be expressed, and are able to lift interaction to a new level.

One thing I do know is that among the people who are good with words are those who are students of words, respecters of language. I'm talking about people who read, people who value connecting with others; people who think in terms of inclusiveness rather than exclusivity. Why these people? It is because these people know words do count. Words provide the foundation on which actions are taken, attitudes are formulated, images are fostered, and ties are bound. Do not take my word for it. Think of a great love song that holds special meaning. Think of a simple statement from a child who whispers, "I love you." Think of Lincoln's address at Gettysburg. Think of FDR's fireside chats. It is all about the words.

Presently, our nation is facing a great many problems that, collectively, seem insurmountable. Fortunately, they are not. However, it is going to take a great deal of sacrifice and wise action to address them. But before any of that happens, it will also take words. They will need to be clear, precise, heartfelt, well conceived, and honest. As we move closer to the next presidential election, one criteria for whom we vote should be which candidate is most apt to deliver words of that caliber.