Self Portrait

All of us begin with a blank canvas. By the time we are done, that canvas is filled with images of all shape and size, a wide spectrum of color and shading, and lines and circles of varying length. Not all that is on the canvas connects, nor does the significance or even meaning of all that is there all make sense. There is both consistency and inconsistency. Stops and starts. Continuous flow and abrupt turns. Not all that covers the canvas is pretty or easy to digest. Hopefully, though, most of it is. Hopefully, most of what we and others see on that canvas elicits pride, admiration, respect, and even affection.


Ultimately, of course, we are responsible for what appears on that canvas. Through our actions and deeds, we are the ones who create that mosaic that portrays who and what we are. What is on that canvas represents our self-portrait. One element that, in essence, helps set the tone for our self portrait is found in how we do and have communicated with others. If our communication efforts have been laced with deception, exaggeration and cruelty, then our self portrait will in all likelihood end up buried in the attic of others' hearts and memories. On the other hand, if how we have strived to communicate has been on the wings of honesty, sensitivity and openness, then our self portrait will be displayed proudly and prominently by all who knew us and of us.   


These observations apply both to professional communicators as well as to the rest of us who do all we can each day to face the big and small challenges of our lives. Communication is the foundation of what we do, how we behave, and the manner in which we connect with others. This does not mean we have to do all we can to be simply liked or popular. Rather, how we communication reflects how much we embrace the truth, loyalty, kindness, being humble, and the importance of looking at life beyond our own needs or wishes.