Duets

From the perspective of a listener, hearing a well-performed duet is an enjoyable experience. Whether it is two singers, instrumentalists or a combination of the two, being on the receiving end of the sound produced by two artists or performers who have joined forces on a particular song is a joy. Of course, though we often think of it as such, a duet does not necessarily have to relate to music. The same "magic" can be produced by two actors or speakers. The point is: two people combining their skills in pursuit of communicating a particular message or theme has the potential to be quite powerful.

For such an act to be effective, the two collaborators must meet several key challenges: carry out their part of the piece to the best of their ability but do so in a way that blends in with or complements the effort of their partner. Such a partnership should not be approached by each member with the mindset that all they need do is properly carry out their part without any kind of overriding concern for their fellow collaborator. While it is true that partner may miss their mark and end up not coming across so well, the reality is if they fall short, then so, too, does their partner. The two, to use the old phase, are "in it together."

All of us participate in duets almost every day of our lives. We interact with others such as co-workers, family members, strangers, etc. Further, we do so via all forms of communicating, including writing and speaking. Our non-stop challenge is to do our part well, but also as best we can make sure our partner succeeds. This is the essence of two-way communication. It requires an attitude of generosity and ability to recognize and embrace a fundamental responsibility for another. I can appreciate how unappealing that may sound. More than that, however, I can embrace how powerful collaborators in a communication exchange can be.