Tourist

Traveling can be fun. Without a doubt, going to a new place, seeing new sights, and interracting with folks from other parts of the world is quite exhilerating. At the same time, traveling, for most, can also be challenging and, in many ways, stressful. Because of the newness of surroundings and a culture different from one many travelers are used to, one's ability to communicate is put to a test in a way few other scenarios do. For instance, assuming for a moment the language is the same, there remains the matter of adapting to how and even when people do things. Generally, what time is dinner? With it, is there a dress code?

When it comes to traveling, the need to communicate is heightened. Perhaps one reason for this is the fact in unfamiliar territory we are a tad more vulnerable. We know less than the folks around us. This is not unlike being the newest member of an office or organization. The lack of knowledge puts us on the defensive, making us more dependent on those around us. We are needy. Consequently, it is in our interest to be more collegial, friendly and cooperative. After all, if we are going to successfully fit in and perhaps gain a sense of independence in a new environment, then it is in our interest to be as  open as we can to what others say and how things are done.

One aspect of communication that being a tourist taps into is listening. When on familiar turf, either physically or in terms of subject-matter, we are more apt to participate in conversation, offer up our own opinions, and even initiate interactions with others. At such times, our sense of security tends to make us more of a sender of a message rather than a receiver. Being the "new kid" tends to reverse such behavior. Despite the stressm, this is a healthy communication challenge. Stepping into a new envirornment as a tourist, among other things, requires us to spread our communication wings. The benefit of such an experience is that we walk away with new memories and ehanced communication skills.