Almost There

Is there anyone who does not know we are living in a time of heated, sometimes over-the-top debate and disagreement? On far too regular a basis, it is commonplace to turn on the news and see reports of people screaming at each at various events and rallies, name calling, and even punches being thrown. Seeing and reading of this behavior as often as we do these days, what often gets lost is the fact that our society has come as far as it has in terms of getting along and being tolerant. Generally, we the people are "cool" with persons of different religious beliefs, different sexual persuasions, from different backgrounds, etc.

Granted, there are those who continue having trouble with such diversity, but they represent a small segment of the total population. Though they are loud in expressing their views, the good news is their numbers are gradually getting smaller. With each new generation, the level of tolerance in our nations grows. This, of course, is a good thing and a reality we should all celebrate and keep doing our best to perpetuate. At this point, there remains one level of intolerance that the majority continues to struggle with. It is one we have yet to conquer or cast aside. I am talking about getting along with folks with whom you disagree.

According to the Pew Research Foundation, people do not like being with others who do not see life as they do. People simply want to be with others of like-mind. I see such a wall as being the final one for us to tear down. Also, I recognize it may be the most difficult. Finding common ground with those who see life through a different lens is not easy. There is a tendency people have to mentally and emotionally draw lines in the sand when facing such differences. This is where effective communication plays a major role. It involves mutual respect and openness and, if practiced, can help our society knock down this one remaining wall. We are almost there, but this final hurdle is a big one.