Lynch Mob Mentality

Is there any one who is not concerned for our country these days? Is there any one among us who, on some level, is not fretting over the future direction and stability of the nation? I don't think so. At least I hope not. If anything, that is the way it should be. Ideally, as citizens, we should always care about the state of our union, its health, stability and future. Further, we should never stop seeking ways to turn this concern into positive and tangible action so that we truly are doing all we can to keep our states united and our international standing strong. After all, aren't we as citizens all supposed to be on the same side?

Lately, I confess to having doubts about that. There is too much yelling. Too many people drawings lines in the sand. Too many people who seem to be unwilling or unable to look past their own interests or agendas and instead focus on ways for citizens to building on their commonalities, and band together to work toward the greater good. A major part of being an active and concerned citizen is not only defined by one's activism but in how they exhibit that involvement. For instance, shouting down others, spreading lies and distortions, participating in violent actions, being disrespectful, and not being open to consensus are indicators of poor citizenship that only brings harm to the ideals of our nation. It is great to have strong views and to make them known with passion and zeal. But it is unacceptable to express those views in ways that counter and even stifle the ability of others to do the same and leave no room for ultimate agreement. Shouting down or physically intimidating others are the actions of bullies and not those who support democracy.

Lynch mobs, by definition, do not abide by democracy. They are driven by passion, mindless anger and a disregard for what is legally and ethically right. "Might makes right" is their credo. I see far too many pseudo lynch mobs today throughout the United States. They are making the most noise and, consequently, conclude they are right. They are not. We are a nation founded on the principles of tolerance, extended hands, fair shakes, and openness. A very heated disagreement over the building of a Muslim community center in New York City is going on these days. It has even triggered similarly heated and troubling disagreements in other parts of the country over the building of places of worship for Muslims. As a result, there has been lots of talking at, little if any talking with, and even reports of violence. Only an adherence to good communication techniques will squash the lynch mobs that have emerged over this issue and others. But for that to happen, people have to be willing to listen. Talk about a tough first step.